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Work on yourself, be the attractive, confident and vivacious woman you were when he first fell in love with you. Slowly build your attraction through your messages. Phase 3: Meet Him After you have built a steady attraction via messages and you have him comfortable around talking to you, gently suggest that you would like to meet him. And when you meet him, look your best, but try not to go overboard; keep it casual.
The No contact period last for one month – 30 days! There is no need for you to inform him in any way that you won’t be available for the next 30 days. He has to see a new improved you to make him start wondering if he could light things up with you again. But, if he does choose you, he is falling for the new improved you and you need to keep the sparkle alive. To go for the kill, all you need to do is be yourself.
If it was you who called quits, think about what actions of his drove you to take that decision, do you think that is forgivable, if it is forgivable; do you think that matches the standards of your core values; if it does, then do you think he is the kind of person who sees the depth of his mistakes and won’t let that happen again?
Now ask yourself – did you make any mistakes in the relationship that drove him away.
After a breakup, both of you need time away from each other to cool off.
If your focus is getting back together, this time will give you an opportunity to reflect upon the relationship. Try to figure out what you could do to not let that get in the way anymore, if you two are a thing again.
So, let them have their fun and concentrate on making your own life better. I hope you understand that we don't want to hurt you.
Even if he does tell you, that he wants to let go of the ‘new girlfriend’ and get back with you and if that is taking time, be supportive.It makes you look very good and will create great faith in you.